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Personal Growth Doesn’t Have to Feel Like a Chore

January 11, 20262 min read

If you’ve ever found yourself staring at a blank journal page, feeling guilty for not writing something deep or profound, this one’s for you.

Somewhere along the way, personal growth became another performance. Look at social media:

  • The best morning routine.

  • The perfect planner.

  • The 5-step healing process that’s supposed to change everything (but somehow still leaves you feeling behind)

Let’s be real. It’s exhausting.

Healing Shouldn’t Feel Like Homework

If your personal growth practice feels like a checklist, you’re not alone.

You might’ve started journaling or meditating or vision-boarding because it called to you. Because it felt good. But now? It feels like a task to complete before you can say “I’m doing the work.”

Growth shouldn’t feel like you’re failing a class you never signed up for.

You don’t need more systems. You need space. Space to reflect, to doodle, to process the messy stuff without a rubric.

What if doodles counted? What if the simple act of awareness coupled with creative discovery was the key to everything? What if enjoying a creative process without needing for it to be perfect was enough?

What If You Didn’t Have to Do More to Feel Better?

You don’t need another planner or 30-day habit tracker. You need a soft place to land.

And if you’ve made your self-care practice harder than it needs to be, that’s okay. You can start again. Today. With just one creative practice. One powerful insight. And one exhale that finally lets your shoulders drop.

(And FYI, that’s what Journal Doodles is all about. A no-pressure, science-backed way to connect with yourself again. Because your story is worthy, even when it’s messy...especially when it’s messy.)

3 Reasons Directed Doodling Works When Other Things Don’t

  1. It’s Guided, So You’re Never Staring at a Blank Page.
    You don’t have to come up with what to write or draw. The prompts are specific, intentional, and designed to move you forward, even when your brain feels foggy or blocked.

  2. It Combines Reflection + Creativity
    You get the insight of journaling and the nervous system regulation of doodling, all in one low-stakes practice. The visuals unlock something your words alone can’t access.

  3. It’s Rooted in Neuroscience, Not Perfectionism
    There’s actual science behind why directed doodling works. You’re calming your brain, creating safety, and letting your mind process gently, all without pushing or performing.

  4. It Bridges the Gap Between Knowing and Doing
    Most people already know they need space to reflect. This method gives them structure to actually do it, no guesswork, no overthinking. Just a clear, proven framework that makes personal growth feel doable again.

Want to try a creative growth practice that actually fits into your real life? Grab a Journal Doodles mini lesson (most directed doodling lessons are 60 minutes but this is an easy 22-minute taste!). No pressure, no perfection, just a little room to feel like you again.

Amber Avines is a certified coach and creative instructor who helps women create lasting change through playful self-discovery and mindset work. She blends science-based coaching with creative practices at Journal Doodles and through her PlayGrounded program. Amber is a Senior Leader for Tony Robbins, and certified through Dr. Joseph McClendon III, Brendon Burchard, and others. She is a former journalist who is passionate about helping women rewrite the internal stories that shape their lives.

Amber Avines

Amber Avines is a certified coach and creative instructor who helps women create lasting change through playful self-discovery and mindset work. She blends science-based coaching with creative practices at Journal Doodles and through her PlayGrounded program. Amber is a Senior Leader for Tony Robbins, and certified through Dr. Joseph McClendon III, Brendon Burchard, and others. She is a former journalist who is passionate about helping women rewrite the internal stories that shape their lives.

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